Just for People-pleasers who are dreaming of a kinder world — and are willing to start with themselves...
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The Choose You Collective!
A movement for people-pleasers ready to choose themselves first,
build strong boundaries,
and create kindness that starts within and grows out to the world.
If you’re a people pleaser, you’ve probably spent so long putting others first that you’ve forgotten how to care for yourself without guilt.
The problem is, others have got used to you overextending yourself, taking you for granted, or not fully appreciating you — which leaves you feeling drained, overlooked, resentful, and stuck in unhealthy patterns.
Without learning how to choose yourself first, set boundaries, and practice self-kindness, it’s hard to build the authentic, nourishing relationships you truly want.
Here’s the deeper truth: when we aren’t kind to ourselves, others find it harder to be kind to us.
When we don’t respect ourselves, others don’t either.
And when we judge ourselves, it’s natural to feel judged by others.
On a bigger scale, if we’re not truly kind and accepting of ourselves, it’s much harder to extend that kindness to the world — not because we want to be unkind, but because that’s just how human nature works.
But there is another way!
By gently noticing where your conditioning and beliefs keep you in unhelpful patterns… and by reframing those beliefs while building new habits… you’ll create boundaries, be there for yourself, become your own best friend, and see how wonderful you truly are.
You already deserve your own kindness, appreciation, and love — without going over and beyond to feel loved and supported.
This year is about finding the inner freedom to be yourself — which may mean first uncovering who you really are.
That’s how you can live a happier, more fulfilling life. This journey builds confidence, deepens authentic relationships, and gives you the freedom to live in a way that feels good.
And because kindness begins within, you’ll naturally create a kinder world — starting with yourself and flowing out to those around you!
Here's What You'll Discover in The Choose You Collective...
Set and keep healthy boundaries even when guilt arises
Feel worthy and deserving of respect
Build authentic, nourishing relationships
Practice kindness and self-care confidently
Experience a sense of freedom and inner peace
